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A Holistic Pregnancy Nutrition Plan

DSC_0177Well its October now which means the air is beginning to cool off, Christmas decorations are up in the department stores, and this tiny little thing called my DUE DATE is just around the corner! Sometimes its hard to believe that I’ve made it this far, but my son will be born in just a few short weeks! I’m so excited!

I’ve talked to you all a little bit about how I’ve stayed healthy during this pregnancy but I thought a refresher was in order, so I’m going to outline for you exactly what I’ve been doing these last 36 or so weeks including my diet and supplemental routine.

My Pregnancy Nutrition

brita-bottle-homemakerchic.comWater– Staying hydrated in pregnancy is a major necessity. Your body is producing a huge amount of extra blood and fluid to support the baby and the placenta, so you need to compensate for it. Early in this pregnancy I purchased a 22oz. Brita filtered water bottle. Its BPA free and uses a charcoal filter system. Do yourself a favor and spring for the hard-sided version with the straw. The squeeze bottle that they sell is cheaper, but trust me- its SO much easier to drink out of the straw (especially in labor!). This bottle has been awesome! I drink about a gallon a day which sounds like a lot but its really easy when you just keep filling up your bottle a little at a time. Plus, I can get fresh filtered water from and sink or water fountain. Not only am I helping the environment by not using hundreds of plastic bottles that will just end up in a landfill, but I’ve also saved a TON of money by not having to purchase bottled water (which is really nothing special- check out the Penn & Teller episode calling Bull-sh*t on the whole thing!) Be sure to keep extra filters on hand. The instructions say to change the filter every 2 months but I’ve found that I drink so much water that I need to change it more like every month. TIP: You can tell it needs to be changed when it starts to get too hard to suck the water out.

Fresh Fruits and Vegetables- The best way to ensure that your growing baby is getting all the nutrients he needs is to consume a diet rich in vitamin and mineral content. Eating plenty of fruits and vegetables is so good for you and your baby.

green-smoothie-homemakerchic.comEvery morning I enjoy a yummy green smoothie with 6-7 frozen strawberries, a handful of frozen peaches or pineapple, 1 ripe banana, 3 handfuls of fresh organic spinach, 1/2 cup of carrot juice, and 1 cup of orange juice. Just blend everything together and enjoy. You can’t taste the spinach at all, and this smoothie is a great source of vitamins A, C, E, K, iron, fiber, beta carotene, antioxidants, folic acid, potassium and more! Its a great way to start your day. You could easily switch up the fruits by adding raspberries, blueberries (this will make your smoothie a sort of brown color, but it still tastes delicious!) You could swap the spinach for kale, although the kale does have a stronger flavor. The only thing I wouldn’t skip on is the ripe banana. It really makes the smoothie creamy and sweet. Also do not add yogurt or milk to the smoothie. The calcium will work against the wonderful properties of the vitamin C and iron that you and your baby desperately need right now. We’ll talk about calcium below.

chicken-vegetable-pasta-homemakerchic.comAnother way I incorporate vegetables is by adding them into easy lunch and dinner recipes. We love having pasta primavera. I will chop up carrots, celery stalks, onion, squash, zucchini, tomatoes, bell peppers, peas, corn, mushrooms, broccoli, spinach, kale or whatever else I have on hand. I do equal parts vegetables and pasta (usually about 3 cups of each for my husband and I, plus left-overs). You can also add some grilled chicken for extra protein and iron. Saute’ everything with a little olive oil and salt and pepper. Mix in with the vegetable pasta you can find in most super markets. I like the Barilla brand. It has a full serving of hidden vegetables in every serving of pasta. You could also make this dish with quinoa or brown rice for a gluten free alternative. I do both often. Add a little half and half and parmesan cheese and you’re good to go! The juices from the vegetables create an amazing sauce. The best part is that if you make extra, it is delicious cold the next day!

broccoli-soup-homemakerchic.comVegetable soups are also a great way to get in those much needed veggies. Its SOO easy! And this time of year is a great time for homemade soup. I make soup at least once a week. Just pick a vegetable, potato, broccoli, butternut squash, pumpkin, carrot, sweet potato, cauliflower, doesn’t matter. The sky is the limit. For a medium sized pot of soup (about 4 bowls) you’ll want the equivalent of about 3-4 cups of veggies. All you have to do is either roast or boil your chosen veggie (it depends on the veggie, i.e. broccoli can easily be boiled while pumpkins would need to be halved and roasted for about an hour). Toss the cooked veggie in a pot. Add a couple quarts of chicken stock, some milk, cream or half & half (if you want), some butter, salt and pepper. Then blitz it all up with an immersion blender. Obviously you can vary this by adding herbs, spices, and other veggies. But you get the basic idea. Its so stupidly easy to do and there are so many ways to make it interesting. Try it!!

My Pregnancy Supplements

Okay so I take a lot of supplements, and you certainly don’t have to take everything that I recommend but let me explain WHY I’ve chosen to take so many. The way I see it, if it can help me have an easier labor and a healthier baby, why not? So after a TON of research I’ve made the personal choice to just try it, and if it doesn’t help then I won’t do it next time.

– Morning – 

super-supplementalMulti-vitamin– In lieu of a prenatal I take Nature’s Sunshine Super Supplemental. It is a 100% food based source of dozens of vitamins, minerals and nutrients including Folic Acid, Iron, and Calcium which are all needed in pregnancy. The serving size is 4 tablets per day, which is what I take when I’m not pregnant. But I only take 1 per day while pregnant. The reason is that the 4 tablet dose has a high vitamin A content (16,000iu) which is not recommended in pregnancy. One tablet has a very safe dosage. (Read this article for more information about vitamin A, aka beta carotene in pregnancy). Also I only take this as an insurance policy in case I have an off day where I’m not getting most of my vitamins from food. I usually get everything that the baby and I need from my diet, so this is just a little extra.  If you’re eating a lot of processed foods, and not consuming a well-balanced diet, you may consider taking 2 tablets a day. Nature’s Sunshine also offers a pre-natal vitamin that has a lower dose of vitamin A (about the same as 1 tablet), which I probably would have taken if I’d known it existed before now.

perfect-ironIron – My super supplemental does include a small amount of iron, but the huge demand on our bodies for iron in pregnancy requires more. Because of the large amount of blood we are producing many women become anemic in pregnancy. To combat this I take 2 tablets of Sundown Natural’s Perfect Iron. This is Iron Carbonyl which is easier on the stomach than Iron Ferrous Fumarate. Now, Vitamin C helps the body to better assimilate the iron into the system while calcium blocks assimilation. Because of this I take my iron in the morning with my Green smoothie which has a TON of vitamin C, and this is also why I do not add yogurt or dairy to my smoothie. Wait about 2 hours to consume calcium after taking your iron.

pro-biotics-for-pregnancyPro-biotics- Taking pro-biotics in pregnancy is very important for two really good reasons. I really hope you do not skip taking this supplement. You’ll want to take a refrigerated pro-biotic which can be found at and health-food or vitamin store. The live cultures in the stuff you find on the shelf will die by the time you get to the end of the bottle. Getting a refrigerated supplement will ensure you’re really getting the benefits down to the last tablet. I take 2 Solgar Advanced Acidophilus Plus, one in the morning and one in the evening.

Reason 1) During pregnancy our digestive system really takes a hit. The body begins putting priority on making a baby, and our poor tummies end up way down the list of priority body systems. Digestion slows, and the result is heartburn, indigestion, constipation and nausea. The healthy bacteria in pro-biotics will maintain a good flora in your gut and really help keep things going in there!

Reason 2) When your baby is born, his immune system foundation is directly related to the strength of yours. Studies show that mothers who increase their probiotic intake during pregnancy reduce their child’s risk of allergies by as much as 50%, specifically in eczema, asthma and atopic dermatitis. A healthier baby sounds good to me!!

– Evening –

DHA:EPA for pregnancyOmega 3/ DHA+EPA / Fish Oil – You have probably heard that DHA is very important in pregnancy. This is because DHA helps build your baby’s brain, nervous system, and eyes. But let’s not forget about EPA, which is another source of Omega 3 that is equally beneficial. Both of these valuable nutrients have been shown to prevent allergies in infants. Fish oil also has amazing anti-inflammatory properties, which is great for aching and swollen joints in pregnancy. I take one combination capsule from Vitamin Shoppe with 300mg EPA and 200mg DHA. I got them BOGO in the store with a coupon. I like to store the bottle in the freezer and take them in the evening because I was finding myself burping up a fishy taste and that is just no bueno for me. Freezing the capsule ensures that it doesn’t release the fish oil until it is down in your belly, and taking it in the evening just helps it to get digested before you wake up, so no fishy breath.

Pro-biotic- We already discussed why it is important to take, but you want to take it twice a day. In the morning, and the in the evening. This keeps your digestive system on track while you sleep and maintains the healthy flora all day and night.

calciumCalcium/Vitamin D- Calcium and Vitamin D are also important during pregnancy to help your baby’s little bones develop. All of these vitamins are included in the super supplemental but I began taking an additional supplement at night because I was having horrible leg cramps. Like, so bad that I actually twisted my ankle because it seized up so badly. My midwife suggested adding this to my daily cocktail of tablets, and its amazing how it worked! I haven’t had a single leg cramp since I added this to my supplemental routine. I take one chewable Caltrate tablet before bed. If you’re having this issue I highly recommend you try it! 

RLTRaspberry Leaf- You can read all about why raspberry leaf is amazing in pregnancy in this post. I’m a big fan of the stuff and many women have sworn by its ability to help with a more efficient labor. I was drinking the tea daily in my first and second trimesters, but toward the end you really want to up the dosage and I just couldn’t drink enough. So I started taking the capsules, which is really easy. I take 6 400mg capsules from Nature’s Way a day. I’m a weirdo and can take all the tablets in one swallow, but I’ve heard other women complain about the size. So maybe try taking them one at a time if its an issue for you. If you’d rather drink the tea, check out the post and all the information about where to find it and how much to drink is there for you.

5-w-pregnancy supplement5W- This is an herbal birth preparation combination that includes: Black cohosh root, Squaw vine herb, Dong quai root, Butcher’s broom root, Red raspberry leaves. I got mine from Nature’s Sunshine, the same company that sells the multi-vitamin. It helps by toning the smooth muscles of the uterus to promote more effective contractions during labor. During the last five weeks of pregnancy, take 2 capsules three times daily with a meal. I will be starting this herb at 37 weeks (which is just a few days away) simply for the reason that I cannot deliver at my birthing center until I reach 37 weeks and I didn’t want to take anything that could get my labor started before that time. But I know people who have started at 35 weeks and had no issues whatsoever. I just wanted to be extra cautious because of my history.

So all in all I’m up to 2 pro-biotics, 1 fish oil, 2 iron, 1 multi-vitamin, 6 RLT, 6 5-W, 1 Calcium, and a partridge in a pear tree. That’s 19 tablets a day! lol. It may seem extreme but hopefully this explanation has given you insight into all the amazing benefits all these wonderful supplements have, and how much they can really help you and your baby have the healthiest, and easiest labor possible.

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Seven Things I Didn’t Expect While Expecting

So now that I’m in my third trimester I thought I might take a few minutes to talk about some of the things I’ve discovered about pregnancy that I was expecting at all. You imagine having a baby your whole life, complete with expectations about how all this is going to go down, but there are so many things that no one explained to me, or at least not in a way that I comprehended. Every woman and every pregnancy is different, but here are some things I’ve experienced myself. Don’t get me wrong, I am absolutely loving pregnancy, and am so very blessed to be welcoming this sweet little baby into the world. I don’t want to come off as a big complainer, but there are just some things that I think TTC moms need to know. Let’s get it all out in the open.

the bump1) The Bump

The dynamics of the pregnant belly are not at all what I was expecting. For starters, you don’t really have a bona fide preggo belly for the first half of the pregnancy, even longer for some women. In the beginning you just have what looks like a flabby gut, or like you ate a giant burrito for lunch. It isn’t firm, and round and cute for awhile. It is squishy, sometimes lop-sided,  sometimes pointy or weirdly shaped, and even produces extra rolls. The cute basketball-under-my-shirt sort of belly didn’t show up until about 5 months. While its rounder and firmer and cuter now, it still has its moments. It is often squishier on one side than the other, and is definitely lop-sided still. I imagined my belly being this separate pregnant entity, but its still my same old belly, except way bigger, and sometimes it just looks like a big ol’ beer gut. I also had no idea that my abdominal muscles would move to the front of everything. For some reason I was imagining that the baby and uterus would grow on top of my abs, but no, abs are front in center. This means that as things start stretching and growing you will feel like you involuntarily did 100 crunches while you were sleeping.

2) People’s Opinions

When people hear that you’re pregnant, they somehow instantly assume that you want their advice and opinion on everything. From what sort of birth you should have, to what color to paint your nursery, if you should circumcise or vaccinate, or even how you should discipline. People start crawling out of the woodworks spewing their viewpoint on you. I’m not even talking about close friends and family, whose input I actually value… I’m talking about total strangers. Or better yet, Facebook stalkers who don’t ask me to lunch or have any involvement in my life except to offer their two cents on one of the most intensely personal and private experiences of my life. When you face this, just be patient, smile and say (or type) thank you. Then, go on your merry way, do your research, and raise that baby the way that you know is right for you.

pregnant arnold3) Men’s Opinions.

Its not even just women. Nooo, no, no. Men will give you their opinions too. On your vagina. Men somehow think that watching their wives go through pregnancy and childbirth is the same as actually doing it themselves. Here’s the rule fellas- unless you are an OB/Gyn, a Mid-husband (do those exist?), or Arnold Schwarzenegger in Junior, you don’t get a dog in this fight.

pregnant-belly-line4) Baby Movement

I had no idea what to expect from baby kicks. I began feeling little butterflies around 11 weeks, and felt the first intelligible movement at exactly 16 weeks, but the first time I felt an actual kick at 21 weeks was about the craziest feeling I’ve ever experienced in my life. I was laying on the bed reading and he kicked so hard I almost fell out of bed. It was both frightening and hilarious at the same time. Feeling this baby move is magical and it really becomes real once you feel them, but its pretty uncomfortable sometimes. Particularly when you get kicked in the cervix. Yes girls, they kick you down there. And it feels like they’re trying to kick their way out. They also tickle. Getting kicked in the ribs, for me, is the same as getting poked in the ribs and I’m super ticklish. Wasn’t expecting that at all. Sometimes it feels like a firm poke, and other times it feels like gas. Sometimes he feels like laundry in a dryer, just flipping over.

5) How Quickly Its Passing!

I wanted to be pregnant for such a long time. Each time I got pregnant I never truly expected that I would stay pregnant (read my story here). So, in order to help me keep my sanity I made the choice early on to take things one week at a time. At first I just wanted to get to 10 weeks, which was the longest I’d ever gotten in a pregnancy. After that I just wanted to get to 13 weeks, safely into my second trimester. Then I just wanted to get to 16 weeks so I could find out the gender of the baby. Then I just wanted to get to the point where I could feel the baby kicking. And now here I am in my third trimester! It’s all happening so fast. I feel like I just took a pregnancy test yesterday, and now my belly is large and in charge. How did this happen? I’m trying to relax and enjoy the process and not be too anxious for it to be over. Especially with this being our first child I’m savoring the time alone with my husband, the ease of things like grocery shopping or going to movies, and getting a full night’s sleep… well sort of. That brings me to my next point.

6) How Hard It Is To Sleep!

I thought the nights of sleeplessness wouldn’t start until after baby boy is born. Well let me tell you that trying to get into a comfortable position while pregnant has proven to be quite a challenge. Not only does it take no less than 23 maneuvers to roll over, or to get out of bed, but you only stay comfortable for about 20 minutes before you have to reposition again. Plus, I have never been the kind of person to wake up in the middle of the night to tinkle, but this started for me early on, around 12 weeks. I get up 2-3 times a night, and each time I get up the whole readjusting process starts over again! On top of this I’m a back sleeper, and my midwife says that I shouldn’t sleep on my back in the third trimester, so I have to use a wall of pillows on both sides of my body to keep me from rolling over. Needless to say this has seriously dampened our snuggle schedule. Not fun.

lynsey stone birth photo7) Stigma Regarding Natural Birth

I have done quite a lot of research and have made the decision to have a natural birth at a birthing center. This is very important to me and I am 100% confident in the care that my baby and I will receive. I don’t judge anyone who chooses to have their baby in a hospital, but this is just what was right for me. But apparently people think I’m bananas. I did not expect this at all. I figured people would respect me like I respect them, but I guess in today’s world being natural has become… unnatural. Lol, how ironic. Its not just people thinking I’m weird, but people thinking that I’m negligent, uneducated, or just plain foolish. Many people seem to have the attitude of “let’s just let doctors handle this.” I really never thought I was all that progressive, since people have been having natural births since Cain and Abel, but I guess I am. Very unexpected response.

So there you have it. What unexpected things have you noticed during pregnancy?

Raspberry Leaf Tea for Pregnancy

cup-of-teaSince my last post I’ve been getting a lot of questions about the Raspberry Leaf Tea that I drink, so I wanted to take a minute to talk about this awesome herb, how it works, and where to get it.

DISCLAIMER: I’m not a doctor or midwife. Just a girl who’s done a lot of research. Don’t ever take my word for anything. Always speak with your birth practitioner before starting on any pregnancy herbs. That being said I personally do (or would do) all the things I am recommending to you in this blog.

WHAT IS IT?

Raspberry leaf tea (RLT) is a tea that comes from the leaf of the garden red raspberry plant. This is not to be confused with the actual berry. The use of Red Raspberry Leaves dates back to ancient Greeks and Romans and has a rich history of being used to treat a wide variety of ailments. Some of the illnesses that they used RRL to treat include: the flu, gum disease, rubella, upset stomach, hangover, diarrhea, fevers, vomiting, menstrual problems, inflammation, etc. The most popular use of Red Raspberry leaves is for pregnancy.

WHAT DOES IT DO?

The main reason this tea is used in pregnancy is because it is a Uterine Tonic. This means it works to tone the smooth muscles of the uterus to prepare for labor and delivery. When used during pregnancy many women will experience Braxton Hicks contractions (myself included). This harmless flexing of the uterus is like aerobics for your baby maker. The tea encourages the uterus to exercise as it begins to prepare itself for real contractions when the time comes.

It has also been known to help prevent future miscarriage. It won’t help if you’re already having a miscarriage, but consumed prior to pregnancy it can help guard against one. If you know my story, you know this was a big plus for me!

Sorry but it will not likely induce labor. If it could then you would not see miserable women, 3 weeks past their due date, drinking castor oil (yuck!), and doing jumping jacks trying to get labor started.

If you find the Braxton Hicks to be too uncomfortable, then take a couple days off of the tea and start again. But if you can get through them you will soooo glad you did when you have super efficient contractions during childbirth, and an easier and quicker labor.

In addition to its awesome toning properties it also has a ton of other nutrients.

Beneficial Vitamins and Minerals Found in Red Raspberry Leaf:

-Rich concentrations of vitamin C

-Vitamin E

-Easily assimilated calcium and iron

-Manganese and magnesium

-Vitamin A

-Vitamin B complex

-Many minerals including phosphorous and potassium

HOW TO DRINK IT

I highly recommend Starwest Botanicals Loose Leaf Tea.

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Its about $12 for a 1 lb bag on Amazon, and that will seriously last you for a year or more. I’ve been drinking at least one cup a day for the last 6 months and I haven’t even gotten through a quarter of the bag. You could always buy the tea bags if you want, but at around $5 for a box of 16 bags, I really can’t justify the cost, when its so dirt cheap to buy it in bulk. I found a lovely glass container to pour the loose tea in and set on my counter top. I like being able to see the tea leaves, but in all honesty you’re probably better off getting an opaque container that doesn’t let any light in. This will keep the tea fresh longer.

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Next you’ll need a good quality tea strainer. I like the scissor kind. Its just so easy to use. It has a little spring and you just squeeze it open. To make the tea just put a few pinches of tea in your strainer, drop it in a cup of hot water, and let it steep for 5-10 minutes. I like mine with honey. The tea tastes nothing like raspberry, in case you were wondering. It has a light simple tea flavor. Very pleasant. You could also totally make this into an iced tea, and add fruit juice to flavor it if you like.

HOW MUCH TO DRINK?

The recommendation for pregnancy is 1 cup per day per trimester. So 1 cup during the 1st trimester, 2 cups daily during the second trimester, and 3 cups a day (or more) during the third trimester.

WHAT IF I DON’T LIKE TEA?

raspberry-leaf-capsules-homemakerchic.comAlternatively you can try the capsules if you don’t like tea. The dosage on these is a bit more nebulous. I feel confident recommending 2 capsules a day in the 1st trimester, 4 a day in the second trimester, and up to 6 a day in the third trimester. I’m not a doctor or a midwife, so you should research it for yourself just to be sure. But I would personally take these doses if for some reason I didn’t want to drink the tea, but I do love the tea! Plus, it really helped to wean me off my daily cup of coffee. The brand that I have in my cabinet in case I don’t have time to sit and drink my daily cup is Dr. Christopher’s Formula Red Raspberry Leaf Capsules 100ct. This is a great natural brand for herbs and a good price too.

DRINK IT BEFORE YOU CONCEIVE

If you are thinking about starting a family I highly recommend you start now with drinking one cup of tea a day. The benefits are just as great for women who are not yet pregnant. Having a nice toned uterus before pregnancy is a great way to prepare yourself for when the time comes. It also has the added benefit of helping with period cramps, and regulating your cycle.

DRINK IT AFTER THE BABY IS BORN

Drinking RLT after you give birth has been known to dramatically shorten recovery time, and help the uterus to whip itself back into pre-pregnancy shape.

THE STRONG BREW

Finally, and I will definitely be updating you on how this works. There’s one more thing you can do with RLT. When you go into labor, brew yourself a big glass of super strong tea. We’re talking like an ounce of loose tea to about 20 ounces of water, and let steep for a few hours if possible to really get the strongest blend possible. Then chug that bad boy down when labor starts. Theoretically you could probably down a big handful of the capsules, but I have no idea how many you would need.

I have read thousands of testimonies of women and midwives who swear by this. Supposedly it is supposed to make labor super efficient, easy, and quick. Many women even say their birth was virtually pain-free! I don’t know about you, but given that I am having my baby naturally at a birthing center, pain-free sounds pretty dang good to me. If it doesn’t work well then oh well. I will DEFINITELY keep you posted on my experience when my son is born in October.

::UPDATE::: You can read my birth story here!

Hope this helps you ladies! Happy, healthy pregnancy to you all. 🙂

How I Cured My Infertility Naturally

How-I-Cured-My-Infertility-Naturally-HomemakerChic.comMany of you know about my struggle with infertility. After inexplicably losing 5 babies (including twin girls), and undergoing months of testing, the doctors were able to find no medical reason for why this was happening. The only answer I got was that it might be some sort of autoimmune issue, but no tests gave any answer as to what kind. We finally gave up on trying to have a baby for awhile and dove head first into the adoption process. We believe that God has called us to do this at some point in our lives. But God had another plan…

Still puzzled by why this was happening to me, I began researching recurrent pregnancy loss (RPL). I knew I didn’t want to be pregnant while we were focusing on adoption, but I wanted to be healthy and whole, so I started looking into natural ways to improve my situation. Among other things, I found that BPA was linked to RPL. So I began taking steps to eradicate this harmful chemical from my life. But I wanted more.

Enter providence. Through a series of divine interactions, I ended up working with a Christian naturopath named Cheryl who gave me the ALCAT test. ALCAT is a food sensitivity test that measures inflammatory reactions in your blood when it is exposed to various foods and chemicals. It turned out that I was intolerant to several foods that I had no idea about (lobster, avocado, basil, broccoli, white potato, button mushroom, and splenda aka sucralose.) Cheryl taught me that health begins in our guts. I learned that all the antibiotics I had taken several years ago when I had chronic tonsillitis, and the birth control pills I had taken for years, had likely torn up the lining of my stomach. I learned that consuming harmful chemicals can make it more difficult for your body to absorb necessary nutrients (and more importantly for my babies to get the nutrients THEY needed!). I learned that eating the wrong foods can cause inflammation in MANY places in the body, possibly including my reproductive organs. I learned that food is medicine, and that by eating wholesome healthful foods I could begin to heal my body from the inside out.

In addition to removing my food intolerances and BPA, I also began living the Real Food lifestyle. I cut out processed foods, and anything with ingredients that I couldn’t pronounce. I began taking probiotics to help fortify my gut, super vitamins to amplify my immune system, and drinking raspberry leaf tea daily to tone my uterus. I began eating whole, organic, and locally farmed foods. I limited the amount of meat I was eating to once a week, and exchanged hormone laced, GMO corn-fed beef for organic grass fed beef. I cut out coffee. I began exercising. And I began drinking a LOT of water. 75 ounces a day! I’m not saying it was easy to change all of this. In fact, one time I was at the supermarket almost in tears because I felt like everything I was used to buying was off limits. I texted Cheryl saying, “Grocery shopping is too hard, I think I’ll just buy wine and go home.” She laughed hysterically and then gently encouraged me to press on. It was very difficult at first, but I was committed to doing this right.

And after just 6 weeks of this new lifestyle I found myself pregnant…. again.

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As the weeks passed I could tell this pregnancy was different. For one thing, I experienced zero spotting. Every single other pregnancy started out with spotting. Secondly, I had morning sickness which I had never had before. After I passed the 10 week mark (the farthest any of my babies had ever survived) I began to seriously wonder if this was actually going to be the one. Week by week this baby has carried on. We’ve gotten to see our sweet little monkey on an ultrasound, actually looking like a baby! This is a completely new experience for us since normally we get terrible news when we have ultrasounds. Systematically during this pregnancy I have eliminated one unnatural thing after another. GMO foods, chewing gum, listerine, face wash, moisturizers, deodorant, and the list goes on. I’ve replaced MANY things with coconut oil. More on that later. I’m still taking vitamins, probiotics and drinking the raspberry leaf tea daily.

So now, at 18 weeks pregnant, I am finally believing that God is giving us this baby… this boy. My son. baby-boy-16-weeks-ultrasound-homemakerchic.com

There’s one other aspect to this process that I want to share with you. In addition to getting my body on track, God began to put my soul on track. He taught me that He is good if He gives me a child, and He is good if I lose 20 more pregnancies. This was a fact that was very hard for me to understand in the midst of my losses. I wondered many times why a good God would let this happen to me over and over again. He taught me that these children were all His before they were mine, and that He was just as brokenhearted over my suffering as I was. I realized that in all of my suffering I forgot the fact that my 5 little sweeties never had to experience loss, suffering, heartache, or rejection. They had the amazing privilege of going straight to Heaven! He is holding them in His hands. Hands that are infinitely more perfect than mine. How could I ever be sad about that? I learned that while God had not yet answered my prayers to heal my body, He kept His promise in the bible that He would heal my broken heart (He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds. Psalm 147:3).

Losing-a-pregnancyAnd finally God asked me the question that I had been so afraid to answer for so many years… “Do you trust Me?” I thought I had trusted Him, but the truth was, I never had. I finally surrendered my fertility and my life to the God of the universe, knowing and believing that He knows my desires, and wouldn’t place this deep urge to be a mother inside me and never fulfill it. When we stepped forward to adopt, I was certain that this was how God was going to fulfill that desire in me (and we still hope to continue with that in the near future) but I can now see how He was molding me and shaping me to become a whole person, inside and out, so that I could become the best mother possible for my children.

If you’ve been through loss, I sincerely encourage you to consider crying out to God and ask him to make you whole. He loves you, and He knows your hurts more than anyone else. Trusting Him has been a journey, but my life has never been so peaceful or fruitful.

The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18

Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him. Psalm 127:3

We’re Adopting!

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Happy New Year Everyone! What a year 2012 was. I started this blog, which has been more amazing than I ever imagined. I’ve enjoyed getting to know to many of you. I’ve shared in the past a little bit about my pregnancy difficulties. I was pregnant for most of 2012, and suffered through the loss of five sweet little babies. God taught me a lot last year about trusting Him, even when I didn’t understand the process.

Some of you know that my husband Adam was adopted. When we were dating I loved learning about his story because adoption was something I had always considered. Early on in our marriage, before all the miscarriages, we discussed our desire to one day continue the legacy of adoption in our own family. In October of this year we finally made the decision to put pregnancy on the back burner and to seek God’s plan for our lives in a different direction.

Through lots of prayer and God’s hand working in a most obvious way, we have signed on with an adoption agency and within the next month or two we will be approved to be added to the waiting list to bring home our baby. At the moment we are waiting for our Home Study to be completed.

We are asking for your prayers as we move forward into 2013 hoping to finally become parents. We are also asking that you will begin to pray for our Birth Mom. We know she is out there somewhere. She may even be pregnant already. I can’t imagine how difficult this journey will be for her and I just want to bathe her in God’s peace.

Finally, we’re asking you to spread the word. If you know of anyone who is pregnant and is considering adoption for their child, let them know about us. We’re looking to adopt a baby from birth to 1 year old.

Thank you all for reading Homemaker Chic! I will keep you posted in this coming months. For now, here are some photos from our recent Adoption “Maternity” Photo Shoot photographed by the talented Patrick Smith. 🙂

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If you’re feeling called to help support us as we raise the $30,000-$40,000 it will cost to fund this adoption you can donate by clicking the button below. All proceeds will go directly toward our adoption costs and fees and any excess will be donated to another adopting family in need.

**UPDATE August 2013**

I am thrilled to share that God has given me the wonderful joy of finally becoming, and staying pregnant with our first son. I am 6.5 months along and everything is going great! You can read more about how this happened in this blog post. We are still planning to adopt near the end of next year, but per the recommendation of our adoption agency we are putting the active adoption plans on hold until after this baby is born. We are still raising money for the adoption, as it will certainly be a great cost. Thank you all so much for your prayers and continued support!

Adam and Noelle's Adoption Fund